“Few would understand what it takes to be AFL umpires’ coach.  The rollercoaster pressure and emotions that come with nine games a week. The detailed instruction and feedback (individual and collective), rule changes that must be coached before they can be umpired; in getting 34 umpires on the same page, facing questions and concerns that may not have answers yet.

The challenge is compounded by pressure – on time, and of watching on as moments unfold on game day. Mixed moments of hope, pride, and those that turn a few hairs grey.

Hayden the umpire was, and always will be, greatly admired. As a coach, he has been unwavering in his support and care over a decade. 

He was a passionate educator who wanted to see you be the best version of yourself. Occasionally, this took the form of a spray demanding a greater work rate, teamwork or more consistency. But mostly, he was bubbly, positive and partial to the occasional tear. 

Hayden valued and preached balance in our lives, both professionally and personally. He recognised the importance and value in having a well-rounded football experience. When it was time to work, you worked. But play was vital for great balance, and he encouraged us to enjoy it when you could! He understood the pressures of match day and the important release of post-game socialising. “H” also understood that an umpire could learn just as much debriefing a game with other umpires over a red wine, as they could in a mid-week coaching session. I know H has played a huge role in the development of many umpires who are still continuing to grow today. The boundary and goal umpires have recognised and appreciated his willingness to listen, understand and advocate for umpiring.”

Brett Rosebury AFL Umpires Association President